How to take photos at roadside attractions (like Paul&Babe)

What’s wrong with this picture?
Hello! No really, that is me. I know you can’t really see my face, but trust me, it’s me.

If you are down by the waterfront for any amount of time, especially in the summer you will see it over and over and over. People huddled at the feet of Paul Bunyan or Babe his Blue Ox and saying cheese while the one with the camera fumbles with the buttons, trying to get a shot. But did you know for all of these years you (and thousands of others) have been doing it incorrectly?

What? You say. Surely Not! You exclaim.

But, YES, I say. Indeed you are. Jon Heller and I (of First Light Photography/Jon Heller Photography)
have a quick lesson for you.

1) If your intent is to see your subject along with the roadside attraction then have the people stand in the foreground near you with the focus being them and keep the statues in the back.

Like this:

This photo is not the finished result, rather it is showing you where the people in your photo should be placed. It feels awkward to be that far away from the statues, but you will see in he next pic that the end result is favorable.

2)The camera person steps up closer to the people posing (basically at the curb in this case)
for a final result like this:

See the difference?

3) Trust us
You still see the attraction (P&B) but now you can see the person as well.

If you want a picture of Paul and Babe take one. If you want a picture to show how tall he is compared to your 2 yr old, let the tike run up and hug his legs. But if you are trying to show off friends and family follow these steps.

Now you know!

Michele P.

Photography by Julie Saari

“Is Ms. Michelle here?”, I ask at the reception desk .

Every time I get my hair done at the Professional Salon Academy I ask for Ms. Michelle.  She chooses my color, style, and length.  It is not because I can’t make these decisions, rather it is because she gets it right every time, and I leave feeling fabulous.  Throughout the years of going to the Professional Salon Academy and spending time in the chair I have gotten to know Michelle.  A fiercely caring mother, a wife, a professional, a Christian,  with a sense of humor and ability to bond with and lead her students through their schooling with respect and admiration.  I love “Ms. Michelle”, I am betting you will too.

Meet Michelle:

My husband, two children, and I found out we were packing up and moving to Bemidji March2, 2006.  At the time, it was quite possibly the worst thing that I thought could happen to us. I had a successful business, renting a chair in a salon, I had a great clientele, and I had my church family. My kids had their lives all set in Detroit Lakes. My daughter had a friend with cancer that she needed to be a support system for! How could this be happening? My husband was being transferred with his job. I kicked (literally), and screamed (at least inside my head). I came up with every conceivable option to not uproot my children, and save my business. I spoke to a close friend of mine, who clued me in that our former pastor was now residing and ministering full-time in Bemidji. He gave me his number.

We booked a hotel for the weekend, and my husband and I made the trip up to “scout” things out. We spent an afternoon with our pastor and friend. He prayed with us, and let us know that this was God’s plan. He introduced us to some of the members of the church, and told me to contact one in particular who would become my employer and close friend.

I went from being angry to losing control of my future in such a good way. I ended up with what is now my dream job. I am a full-time instructor at Professional Salon Academy. I discovered with that position, my mission in life. I feel I was meant to do what I am doing right now. All of the years before this were a means to an end.  My husband had told me that maybe the move wasn’t about him this time, just maybe it was about me.

My children came out better for this move. I had prayed that my daughter would not have to watch her friend pass away. What I was praying for was recovery for her friend. God always answers our prayers, sometimes just not the way we want. My daughter did not have to watch her friend pass away. We moved the weekend hospice care was called in. She passed away one month later. My daughter didn’t have to see her friend suffer. I feel moving to Bemidji helped my children to become who they are now.

I am an artist, mentor, wife, and mom. This is my town, (and I’m not moving!).

Click Here To View A Slideshow of Michelle’s Photo Shoot

pics by Julie Saari

Elizabeth J.

Photography by Julie Saari

Elizabeth J.
Diamond Point Park
on Lake Bemidji

How long can a meeting get rained out, canceled due to sickness, or postponed in general?  Apparently for months.  That is what happened with Elizabeth and me.  When we finally met that warm July morning in Diamond Point city park it was like meeting a friend whom I hadn’t seen in awhile.  Wandering around the park we were never at a loss for a conversation topic.  A little bit ‘crazy’, definitely spontaneous, and filled with humor, Elizabeth and I hit it off from the start.

I am sure you too would like to meet Elizabeth J.

I was born September 28^th 1981 here in Bemidji.  Shortly after my birth I was airlifted to the University in Minneapolis because my lungs were too premature to provide for me.  At 100 dollars an hour  24 hours a day, 7 days a week my mother used to tell people I was her “Million Dollar baby”

My parents were divorced when I was five years old and my three half brothers and I remained living with my father in Puposky and spending every weekend with Mother who lived just south of Bemidji.

The majority of my summers were spent in Michigan, which is where both of my parents were from and all of my secondary family lives.  I still consider northern Michigan my “Home away from Home,”  My father moved back after I graduated and we go back at least twice a year now.

I attended Deer Lake Elementary school, which is no longer open but still holds a spot in my heart;  I than attended Bemidji middle and high school.  When I graduated Bemidji HS, I was asked to give a graduation speech at my old elementary school which happen to be the last year they were to remain open.  When I entered the school my senior year in high-school, the nostalgia was so thick you could cut it with a knife.  The smell was the same, the emotional feelings of the school came flooding back.  Even the books smelled the same. This was a school where the teachers cared, they wanted to teach and they made you feel special.  To this day I remain in contact with several of the teachers from my elementary school.  Three of them came to my wedding and my baby shower.

All through my junior and senior high I tried to find a way to fit in.  I never belonged to a “click”  and I feel that being raised by my father and three brothers made it more difficult for me to find “myself” comfortable in one particular area. I was into sports, however wasn’t coordinated enough to compete. I always felt out of place.  I was often teased but learned to deal with my insecurities with humor.  So I was often seen as the class clown and got into trouble because than my classmates would accept me more.

It was in my junior year in High school that I met my husband.  We started dating in 1998 and have been together ever since.  After my HS graduation, we moved to Arizona and lived in Phoenix for 5 years.  He went to Devry school of technology and I worked for a pet store.  Then I went to school for general psychology and continued to work at the pet store.  I left the pet store to work in a early childcare facility.  We were married back here in Bemidji in the year and the day after we were married we both agreed we wanted to move back.  We moved back in June and have not regretted our choice.

We live about 10 miles north of town on 3 acres of woods.  My husband has a good job working for Paul Bunyan Telephone, and I work for a state psychiatric hospital.  I have worked there since they have opened 3 years ago and hope to remain there once I take my MN state board exam.  In January of  2008 we were blessed with the best news of our life.  We were expecting our first child.  I had just graduated from LPN school and we had agreed to wait until I finish school to even START to try to have a baby.  Well, SURPRISE!   My son was born September 15^th 2008 1 week late.  He was 9 lbs 12 oz and 21 ½ inches long.  He remains to be the light of our life and surprises us every day.  He is very smart and gives me inspiration to do better.

I have recently graduated college a second time with my associate degree in registered nursing, and am working towards taking my MN state board exam at the end of June 2010.

I love so many things about Bemidji.  I love going for walks at the water front.  I love taking my son to Diamond Point Park, this is where he had his first birthday party.  I love being able to go to Buena Vista Ski resort in the winter to go snowboarding or skiing.  My husband and I both share a love of Dave’s Pizza and have spent many nights there.  We have gone there to celebrate us buying our house.  We have spent anniversaries there and birthdays.  It was even the first food I ate after having my child.

So to make a long story even longer, I am a young Nurse who loves Bemidji for its memories that it gives me.  I am outgoing, understanding and someone who would drive out of my way to give you a lift if you called and needed one.  I am someone who probably is not remembered for her popularity than, but I promise you that I will be remembered for my generosity now.

written by Elizabeth Jansen

To view Elizabeth’s photo shoot click HERE

pics by Julie Saari

Kathryn L.

Strong is how I would describe Kathryn Lavelle.   Brought here by an abusive man, ripped from the environment she knew and left here to survive on her own- now a single mother after escaping the clutches of yet another abusive relationship.  In search for a ticket out of here Kathryn found instead a town that embraced her and helped her heal.  She found a place that her life’s pain could be used to help others, she found a home.  I will let her explain why Bemidji is her town

Meet Kathryn:

I was born on September 5^th, 1967 from strong-New York born-half Irish-half Italian-church going-Catholic parents at St. Claire’s Hospital in a small New Jersey town called Denville. I lived in NJ until I was 9 years old and then my family moved to Maryland. I grew up in Maryland…Fallston to be exact…until I entered adulthood.

I attended Fallston High School, where the majority of my time was mostly spent skulking through enemy territory. Fallston was a lily white, somewhat affluent, mostly conservative community that seemed hell bent on showing me to my place and forcing me to stay in it. Let’s face it, at the time I was not pretty…I was not popular…I was not a cheerleader…I was never what you would call successful in school. I always felt out of place…as if I was supposed to be living somewhere else…some magical town or city where I could just be myself, breathe deep and be appreciated for my strengths and talents. I later attended Harford Community College only to eventually find myself great with child as they sometimes say, and I had to drop out after only half a year. I had become a statistic, just another one in my long life of statistics…teen pregnancy…sexual assault survivor…teen dating and domestic violence victim. I found myself a young, single parent living in Baltimore City, bartending week nights at a little motorcycle bar called The Loft so I could try and support my infant son. I eventually met and began dating a man from Minnesota when my son was about 3 years old, and we ended up following him back to his small hometown of Clearbrook. So that’s basically the extremely short, bottom line version of how I actually came to end up here in God’s Country, as some of the old timers are still inclined to call it. Before that point, I hadn’t ever given Minnesota a glancing thought…I’m not even sure I could have found it on a map because Geography was yet another school subject I definitely did not excel at (to the extreme chagrin of my father). My entire life’s game plan (from a 16 year olds perspective) was to hopefully graduate from high school…move to Florida where I’d help a friend’s grandma run her bed and breakfast…and write beautiful poetry to the majestic Sun as he slowly spread his amazing golden red and pink streams across the darkening sky. Talk about your culture shock when I finally ended up in Northern Minnesota…

Marriage number two didn’t fare so well…5 years in all…and I divorced the man we originally followed to Minnesota in the first place. I found myself with 3 kids by then, my two daughters Brianna and Mollie who were 3 and 4 years of age…and of course my son David who was 7 by that time. I was fully intending on moving back to Maryland with my tail tucked between my legs so I could hear family members say, “I told you so” for about the next 20 years. I moved out of our home in Clearbrook and got as far as Bemidji where I found a small trailer…REALLY small…in Northern Township. We signed the rental agreement, month to month, and then the children and I moved in. My plan was to work until I had just enough money to get bus tickets for me and the kids. Then we’d travel back to the East Coast so I could start from scratch yet again.

That was 14 years ago and I have lived in Minnesota a total of 19 years…5 years in Clearbrook and 14 years in Bemidji…almost half my life has been lived up here in the great Northland. You may be wondering then, why I never moved back to Baltimore. I didn’t move back because…when a place gets a hold of you…it gets into your blood, brain and bone. It sings to your spirit and says, “Where have you been? I’ve been waiting for you! Better late than never, girlfriend…better late than never!” I got as far as Bemidji and realized…almost as soon as the first box was unpacked…that I was here to stay…that this was HOME! And all of my best laid plans…my eventual escape from Minnesota back to the East Coast from whence I came…became thwarted by this wonderful, eccentric place of energy and possibilities. Bemidji had in fact gotten a hold of me. I would like to add that my Brooklyn born, Irish East Coast bred dad finally ended up following me here to Bemidji after a few visits, and has lived here now for about 7 years. All of my social activist tendencies have come from this man…and it’s been wonderful having him here to spend time with…where he has had the opportunity to watch his grandchildren grow…and now has that same opportunity with his great-grandchildren! And he too, has come to think of Bemidji as his home.

At this point in my life I consider B-town to be my one true hometown, because it was the one I had been waiting half my life to find. Bemidji was the place where I first found my stage legs, my performer’s heart and my singer’s voice. It was the place where I became trapped in an abusive 10 year marriage from hell (my 3^rd one) and yet it was also the place that helped me use those horrific experiences to reach out and teach others so they could begin their own journey of healing. It was the place that showed me unbearable heartbreak, pain and sorrow and yet it was also the place that gave me renewed hope and finally…FINALLY…true and unconditional love! It is the place where my children grew up and my grandchildren now embark on their own journey of growing and learning. It is the place where I live and work and breathe and dance and count my abundant blessings. Bemidji is the lake, the land and the sky…coming together to form a more perfect union of township and rural living. Bemidji brought my husband Cody and I together and Bemidji is where we’ll grow old together…me probably a little faster than him since he’s 12 years younger…but together none the less!

I love so many things in, around and about Bemidji.

..I love the Diamond Point Park…I love the lake trail…I love Preachers Grove in Itasca State Park where Cody asked me to be his wife…I love Paul Bunyan Broadcasting where I am currently embarking on a new career as a part time weekend DJ…I love the Wild Hare Bistro and Coffee House because sometimes “you just wanna go where everyone knows your name”, and they even remember what your usual is when it’s too damn early in the morning for you to verbalize it! I love the smell of Harmony Coop and Sunrise Natural Foods, and the wonderful people who work there and lovingly share their wisdom and knowledge. I love having a pint of Guinness at Brigids Cross Irish Pub because it reminds me of the Cat’s Eye in Fells Point, Baltimore. I love being able to walk into my local bank where the tellers know my first name and they’re always letting me know how much they enjoyed the last play or performance I was in. I love how random people see me walking down the sidewalk and ask how my family is. This is the kind of magic you don’t get in a large city…the magic of people connecting on a personal and emotional level that we sometimes take for granted. There are subcultures within our fair city that are reminiscent of true M. Scott Peck communities, and for me these pockets of evolving humanity are essential for my survival as a true human being…to know that people care about me and for me and are working with me to make the world a better place. I like to think of myself as a true Bemidjian because so many people in this town know me…what I’m about… and they still don’t try to change who I am. What an empowering feeling that is! People who live here can be their own true selves, and that in itself is a wonderful gift. I feel I am accepted and in some cases even respected (I hope!) for my domestic violence experience and the work I do to bring education and empowerment to northern community members. In Bemidji I am most recognized as being the domestic violence outreach and education coordinator for Northwoods Coalition for Family Safety…but I am also known for many others things as well. Bemidji has never tried to keep me in a box, rather it has allowed me to experience life on many levels. I have been an actor…a writer…a poet and playwright…a singer…a friend…a wife…a mother and a grandmother…a social activist…and I am very content to live out the rest of my days here, growing and learning while weaving my life in and around the diverse seasons and landscapes of the area.

So to wrap up and bottom line my story…who am I? I am an aging hippie living with her younger husband in an Earth home in Northern Township with 6 cats, 2 dogs and a large corn snake. I am the proud mother of three amazing adults and two gorgeous grandbabies. I am a good someone to have in your corner if your back is up against the wall because I will fight hard for what’s right and just. I am the one who will stop and be late for work if an animal is hurt on the side of a road because I must get out and try to help it. I am the one with an overflowing full plate and a few more on the back burner thrown in for good measure. I am a loyal friend and a relentless foe. And I am…most certainly…a true and loyal fan of my adopted home town…better late than never…Bemidji Minnesota!!!

Click here to see a slide show of Kathryn’s photo shoot

pics by Julie Saari

Northwoods Coalition for Family Saftey’s website HERE